Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Happiness Vs Satisfaction

I have been thinking over this for quite a while now. For some, this might be very simple to answer, but the more I think about it the more I get confused and entangled. Writing it down seems the best option available.

Okay, to start of with the meaning (according to me) of the two words;

Happiness: the joy you get by doing, achieving, creating, making etc. something.

Satisfaction: the feeling of content after you've done something.

Now, if we have a look at both the definitions or meanings above we can see that there is a very thin line between the both. In other words, there can be seen a kind of cause and effect relationship between the two. Happiness can give you a feeling of being satisfied, or being satisfied makes you feel happy.

Then the confusion starts. If happiness is considered good then why many people consider satisfaction bad? As in, I myself am of the opinion that you can afford to be happy but not satisfied. I don't know why but I feel that being satisfied can hamper the pace of progress. The desire in you to achieve more and more dies once you satisfy yourself. So, in this case satisfaction is pretty much parallel to satiation. Or is it? Being satisfied in ones own life; the sentence itself is so discouraging!!! On the other hand,
Being happy with ones own life; isn't there a difference between the two? Which sounds good to our ears? I bet most of you will go with the second one. Is it just the language, or is it just our perception? Again, being satisfied with what you have and being happy with what you have are also different. Somehow being satisfied cuts down all the hopes for future development and growth. The fire to achieve a target, set a goal, excel even after that doesn't seem to be working with the very use of the word.

Happiness sounds full of hope and encouragement, atleast to my ears. There is a chance of going in search of more happiness after being happy once. Being satisfied is like asking yourself, what more do you want??? Isn't this enough? Have you ever guessed, why the Will Smith movie was called “Pursuit of Happ'y'ness” (one of my favorites) and not “Pursuit of Satisfaction”?? Well, if you think about it you will find sense in this post. Then a question might be asked, why the Benny Benassi song is called “Satisfaction” and not “Happiness”? Well, I have an explanation to this as well, but would like to answer it via mails.........;). You can contact me @ sarveshdeoras23@gmail.com.

Many critics have often asked me, if a man doesn't get satisfied then where does he stop? (the question is asked just for the heck of it, remember they are critics!!!). They seem to be more convinced than I myself am about the topic.....:) Well, I would say, is there a need for a man to be satisfied ever? I mean, he can be happy with what he has achieved. Whats the need to be satisfied? He can find ways and means to be happy in life without being satisfied and stagnating his own growth and chances of being happy anytime after that, can't he?

9 comments:

  1. In my views happiness is something which comes immediately after something good being done, we get happy when we get something. Happiness don't stay for long time and it's momentary. On the other hand satisfaction is followed by happiness. But every happiness can't result a satisfaction. Satisfaction is long lasting. for example if we get first division in exams we will be happy on the result day, but we ll be satisfied for a long period of time until we set our new goal for us.

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  2. Hey Sp,

    Still debatable....;)..yeah but the clouds clearing up jus a lil bit..

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  3. yes lets get debate on it. What do yo say?

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  4. heehee...not here dude!!! come down soon....:)

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  5. Hey Sarvesh....Firstly Kuddos!!... for touching such an interesting topic...

    Heres my take on the topic (a bit lengthy though ;)) -

    1)Happiness cannot survive without satisfaction...

    I strongly believe that the 'sense of satisfaction' is a pre-requisite for a person to be happy.

    I have observed...that the person who is not satisfied with its present being...is never happy. Thats where frustration comes into picture...and I believe you will agree...frustration leads to unhappiness. You can observe and take up examples from your surroundings...try it!

    So then lets define 'Sense of satisfaction' -

    Satisfaction, according to me...is a very basic yet imperative feeling...which is necessary for a healthy state of mind. Because with it, comes, peace of mind...happiness...enjoyment!

    But yes..as you rightly talk about in your blog..satisfaction can also give way to complacency.

    Now there I feel..is a very thin line between 'Satisfaction' and 'Complacency'....

    Lets take a hypothesis for a while..... that there exists two two different human beings- S-a and S-b

    At the age of 25 both S-a and S-b bought a two wheeler for themselves.

    Now, S-a was feeling satisfied...which made him happy too. Now he is in a healthy state of mind which continues.... He is a sincere and a hard working guy and continues to work the same way as he did before..

    S-b is also satisfied and is proud of himself for getting a two wheeler for himself as he has been aiming for it and has been working only to achieve that.

    He compares himself with others of his age and finds him ahead of them....Now he becomes complacent...and he lacks the enthusiasm for his work.

    After 3 years.....

    S-a has made a decent progress and is able to get a new car for himself. Now again he is having that sense of satisfaction that at the age of 28 he was able to get a car.

    S-b finds that cars are affordable to most of the people of his age-group and they are having a car. He is not able to get the car for himself because he is still at the level he was before 3 years while others have grown across the years.

    He now feels very dissatisfied and is frustrated...which leads to unhappiness...Remember the tortoise and the hare story!!!

    The point here is...I strongly feel...its all in the 'Attitude'. S-a had the right attitude towards life...The key is in 'being satisfied in your present self...the present achievement...without diminishing the efforts or work that you are meant to do'!

    If you look back..it also links aptly with the preaching of 'Karmayoga' (I.e 'the discipline of action').

    S-b became complacent just because he was working to achieve the reward. S-a did not because he believed in adhering to his duty....he knew..the reward will follow him!

    I personally feel that our whole generation is into the rat race of... being ambitious..competitive etc. It is all good....if one remembers the thumb rule... 'keep doing wat you are meant to...no one can stop you!'

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  6. @ Keerti,

    Thats a new post all together..LOL..Well anyways replace happiness in places where you have used satisfaction. The menaing will change. About the hypothesis: S-a was more happy than he was satisfied according to me as he never gave up working hard as he wanted to achieve something more. S-b on the other hand, probably wished to achieve but never planned for it. In his case I'd like to believe that he was more satisfied than being happy. Complacency and satisfaction can be related in a way as satisfaction leads to complaceny. Satisfaction need not be an outcome of hapiness as a person can be happy yet not be satisfied, yes but when he is satisfied he definitely is happy. There lies the difference.

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  7. well yes...it was a post altogether..also thought of puttin it in my blog [;)] But seems it dint help you in your path to discovery :)

    Regarding the story...The character of S-a was to represent that..it is possible to be satisfied with what one has presently and yet progress in life...

    Not all would get complacent when they are satisfied. Its very clear to me...that..its with people like S-b..who work only to achieve something..that they get complacent! Give it a thought!!

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  8. Trust me ppl... ALL is only in the mind.... You can stay both happy and satisfied only when you are able to keep your mind calm and peaceful.. the more you think about happiness or satisfaction.. the more you will start comparing... and never get the peace.... i would say befriend your mind and u will see both happiness and satisfaction...

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