Had been to my hometown over the last weekend.It was a good change but I realised something which I don't think I liked a lot.It was about my friends,my gang....
It is strange to adjust your self with the changes that occur in a course of friendship,isn't it?I know these people for atleast 5 years of my life now and somehow I feel the group dynamics have been changing over period of time.I mean,I saw all fo us suddenly adjusting to the other person's time,place and convenience when it came to all of us meeting.All of us have started behaving like "true" professionals and have started adjusting to everything the other person says.Even after having a couple of drinks we din't have a heated debate on any subject.All the topics remained so neutral,without any spice in them.No disagreements,no counter facts nothing....Just simple "I don't think it's that way"!!!!Back then,everyone used to have an opinion.Not just opinion but DIFFERENT opinions.It was so interesting,so dynamic....Seemed like the flair used to co-exist in between all of us.
I think its not just that we've grown up but even our friendship has matured over time.It doesn't demand anything from anyone of us anymore.It just stays the way it is and guess thats the reason behind our complacency.Gone are the days when we used to call each other and say"Hey f***er,get your arse to Tulsi (you get awesome tea here @ Baner,Pune) in the next 10 mins.We are waiting for you"!!!!
Miss those days......
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